Marriage life after baby......

Agreed that you are always in praise about your hubby when you are newly married and can’t stop talking about him to others how great he is. You have to prove to the whole world, the friends, the current friends, the cousins and their likes what a great catch you have landed. You believe you are perfectly made for each other and go on and on about it to your friends. How smart he is, what fun he is! The gifts he showers on you. You love to swap hubby stories among your friends and wait for an opportunity to tell them about the surprise dinner he cooked for you on your birthday. You can’t believe how some wives can complain about their husbands so openly and secretly thank God that you have nt ended up with a husband like theirs. You vow never to be like them. You never ever tell anybody about the fights. You quit a perfectly nice job and follow him to the end of the Earth. (I remember a week after getting married I told my friend, "I can’t live without my hubby"! ... It sound so foolish now but if I go back in time, I would say the same thing again, I’m sure. Only more confidently perhaps. Ah! Those were the days!)

But after 4 or 5 years, it should stop. It will stop! Then you will tell only the things you mean. You would advise your 21 year old cousin not to get married so soon. You would tell your 27 year old single friend how lucky she is not to have got caught in marriage and its responsibilities. You would tell your husband that your pre-married life was bliss. Not that you are nt in love anymore, but because you grow up!

Marriage life after baby is little hectic ....Me and my husband hardly talked in a week when kavin was in his 6-12 months....But now he is 2.5 years...He is little independent ....So those days started coming back......

The two things which can spice up marriage life is Acceptance and Appreciation. Accept them as they are without trying to change them. Show your appreciation of your spouse for the big and little things they do each day..

PS : Absoultely my personal experience. Just replace the "you"s with "I"s if you don’t agree!....Reader who is newly married,waiting for a baby...don't get me wrong...It's a hard part of life with sweet memories only...So go ahead....